tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070362.post319691338609104250..comments2023-11-02T19:19:15.129+05:30Comments on Death Ends Fun: Where there's smokeDilip D'Souzahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08221707482541503243noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070362.post-7039592872463798222010-07-07T23:40:50.191+05:302010-07-07T23:40:50.191+05:30Second-hand puja can be good, but in this case mor...Second-hand puja can be good, but in this case more like second-hand smoke.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070362.post-75689184600083616642010-07-07T10:11:09.114+05:302010-07-07T10:11:09.114+05:30Rahul's original comment and my response to it...<i>Rahul's original comment and my response to it are gone</i>.<br /><br />Indeed, and so are some others. I have no idea what's going on. They are all in my mail, and they were here for a while, now they're gone. On the other hand, some that had disappeared yesterday mysteriously reappeared this morning. Maybe it's some peculiar blogger error that is being rectified. Let's see.Dilip D'Souzahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08221707482541503243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070362.post-11722839119591424872010-07-07T09:55:00.478+05:302010-07-07T09:55:00.478+05:30Rahul's original comment and my response to it...Rahul's original comment and my response to it are gone, leaving his reply Jul06, 9.28 hanging there.<br />------------------------<br />My memory of his original comment was that it spoke about "a sense of entitlement" driving upper-class boorish behavior and the poor getting along okay because they have "no choice". (my words, cant remember his exact comm).<br /><br />I pointed out the neighbours were equally affluent or equally disadvantaged in either case and that I have seen several brawls and fights among the poor.<br />--------------------------<br /><br />I pretty much agree with Rahul's response except to note that there is a numbers game: <br /><br />Significant numbers of people occasionally congregate in my neighborhood for festivals that are extremely noisy, sometimes smoky and almost always conducted in space they do not own- roads and such. The spillover noise/ smoke is into our houses.<br /><br />Almost all of them qualify as poor and many do come from slummy areas. No consent of non-participants has ever been sought or given.<br /><br />The main difference I see here is that the wealthier offenders like in the OP try to say GFY by themselves while the poor* do it in greater number.<br /><br />regards,<br />Jai<br />* I dont know if the label "poor" is to be removed while affixing "loud uncaring devotee" due to space constraints :-)Jai_Cnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070362.post-53100458095715139562010-07-06T21:22:38.430+05:302010-07-06T21:22:38.430+05:30Reminds me of this:
In one campus, some people st...Reminds me of this:<br /><br />In one campus, some people started a <i>vishaal bhagwati jaagran</i>. Not only that, apparently believing that the <i>bhagwati</i> was hard of hearing, they decided to do this with microphones. This went on not only through the day but also at night. When one professor objected, they said that it was their "freedom to religion."<br /><br />The professor said nothing. But a few days later, he proceeded to blast his extensive collection of reggae music at night. When the <i>bhagwati bhakts</i> landed up at his doorstep, he told them that he was a Rastafarian and that he was exercising <i>his</i> right to religion.<br /><br />From what I understand, there were no more <i>jaagrans</i> so long as he was on campus.Sureshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12270071532015895732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070362.post-28011570630974806982010-07-06T13:21:02.810+05:302010-07-06T13:21:02.810+05:30ps - upon consideration, I think "inconsidera...ps - upon consideration, I think "inconsiderate" does not cover this. Planning a smoky puja without thinking of elderly, invalid neighbours is inconsiderate. When those neighbours alert this young woman to their discomfort, and she says "what to do" and "close your window", that is not being inconsiderate. A "sense of entitlement" doesn't describe it either. It is a big "fuck you" to the rest of the world. She will do what her perception of her religion requires; the rest of us don't matter.Rahul Siddharthanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04809667965184094636noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070362.post-4002825159214941262010-07-06T09:28:11.341+05:302010-07-06T09:28:11.341+05:30Jai - yes, the poor fight too: I didn't mean t...Jai - yes, the poor fight too: I didn't mean to say they didn't. But I suspect the fights are provoked by more significant things than what we call "annoyances".<br /><br />Nikhil -- ah, I see that stung. But it's true. Even Buddhism is an exception only in theory, not always in practice (there is no God, but you can substitute their other rules and what I said applies).Rahul Siddharthanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04809667965184094636noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070362.post-43210093955556206892010-07-06T05:14:07.511+05:302010-07-06T05:14:07.511+05:30And I agree with B: the entire premise of religion...And I agree with B: the entire premise of religion (and I mean all major religions, except Buddhism) is that God cares about nothing except flattery and obedience to some arbitrary set of strictures. If leading a good life and having consideration for your neighbours counted for anything, there wouldn't be a need for God or prayer. Praise God and all else is forgiven.<br /><br />Rahul - Please do not display your ignorance with such posts. Do not put posts on topics that you are not qualified to speak on.<br /><br />Yes- the people performing the puja were being inconsiderate to their neighbours.Nikhilnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070362.post-42432494731437465292010-07-05T17:23:29.927+05:302010-07-05T17:23:29.927+05:30Nothing on the main post, but Rahul, how do you co...Nothing on the main post, but Rahul, how do you conclude that the rich feel "entitled" to annoy their (equally affluent) neighbours while the poor put up with annoyance from their equally poor fraternity because they have no "choice". <br /><br />One thing possibly is disposable time, the poor simply cant afford to spend time scrapping over less-important stuff. And yet I've seen enough drunken brawls and huge roadside spats that dispel any idyllic notion of harmony or even adjustment.<br /><br />thanks,<br />JaiJai_Chttp://jaics.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070362.post-44436910203309469342010-07-05T15:50:59.432+05:302010-07-05T15:50:59.432+05:30Smug Cat -- I am pretty sure that the residents of...Smug Cat -- I am pretty sure that the residents of an apartment complex in Mumbai whom Dilip refers to are quite affluent. I am also sure that if their flat had been infested with smoke emanating from a puja performed in a nearby servant's quarter, they would have complained, very loudly. It is not being "tolerant of annoyances", but a sense of entitlement among the well-off in this country that they have the right to annoy others.<br /><br />The poor are indeed tolerant of annoyances, from the rich and from one another -- they have no choice.Rahul Siddharthanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04809667965184094636noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070362.post-28897779340816512622010-07-05T15:17:15.680+05:302010-07-05T15:17:15.680+05:30When I say common enough, I mean the generic occur...When I say common enough, I mean the generic occurrence seen through the eyes of the average citizen who is possibly less affluent and consequently more religious and less individualistic and way more tolerant of annoyances that weird people cause than you and people who read this blog. Hence the phrase preaching to the choir. And I doubt if that comment you cite was even serious -- even if it were, I don't think it deserves any response in a reasonable world.<br /><br />And the fire brigade is drawn from such a population, is ill-equipped and under staffed. Unless the building had a large enough fire to cause the death of more than 10 people, the fire brigade will simply not act. That holds true for almost all public services. It's systemic and blaming one instance is being unfair to those involved in that instance.Smug Catnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070362.post-46980554303553480422010-07-05T14:46:16.167+05:302010-07-05T14:46:16.167+05:30Smug Cat:
whether it's a common enough occurr...Smug Cat:<br /><br /><i>whether it's a common enough occurrence</i>.<br /><br />To the best of my knowledge, this was the first time.<br /><br /><i>writing a post about it's ethical, behavioral and moral culpability on the Internet is essentially preaching to the choir. No one who reads this post will disagree with your position</i>.<br /><br />For one thing, there's already at least one person who disagrees who has seen fit to leave a comment. For another, the family members doing the puja and the firemen all appeared to disagree with my position, and I presume that at least some among those can and might read this post.<br /><br />The 77 year-old lady plans to bring this up at the next AGM of the building.<br /><br />I'm not sure how you conclude that the fire brigade had no choice but to be miffed.Dilip D'Souzahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08221707482541503243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070362.post-90812993995215903352010-07-05T12:50:14.670+05:302010-07-05T12:50:14.670+05:30I don't understand this post from a common sen...I don't understand this post from a common sense perspective.<br /><br />It is immaterial whether the residents were doing puja or ritual execution. The point is, whether it's a common enough occurrence and does the society implicitly sanction this occurrence however stupid it may be.<br /><br />That being the case, writing a post about it's ethical, behavioral and moral culpability on the Internet is essentially preaching to the choir. No one who reads this post will disagree with your position. Merely with what you then decided to do about it. Wonder what the Home Owners Association is doing, how they are constituted etc. And the fire brigade in such a poor country cannot be anything but miffed -- in fact I am happy they even cared enough to get miffed.Smug Catnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070362.post-60698752755112959652010-07-05T10:06:49.808+05:302010-07-05T10:06:49.808+05:30RS: you apparently got your wish within, what'...RS: you apparently got your wish within, what's it, half an hour. Could be a Limca world record, for all I know.<br /><br />And may I agree too, all religions I've run into of seem to induce in their followers the idea that being a good citizen/neighbour is trivial claptrap; what's important is flattering god. (You'll excuse me if I avoid the capital G).<br /><br />In my "Roadrunner", I have an account of a depressing encounter with a priest in South Dakota that went along more or less these lines: doing good is irrelevant, he said, the real point is believing. Period.<br /><br />As I said, depressing. As much so as with the lady yesterday.Dilip D'Souzahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08221707482541503243noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070362.post-31765463596435633062010-07-05T09:57:35.208+05:302010-07-05T09:57:35.208+05:30What else can one expect from dcubed but to scorn ...What else can one expect from dcubed but to scorn everything Hindu. As Nikhil said in one earlier comment, for Dilip, Hindu equals bad, and everything else equals good. Have we seen even one column from him about Muslims doing obnoxious things in flats?? Point proved.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070362.post-70146701992067850712010-07-05T09:30:42.727+05:302010-07-05T09:30:42.727+05:30Awaiting the comments on the Hindu-hating Christia...Awaiting the comments on the Hindu-hating Christian D'Souza. What, not even one yet?<br /><br />And I agree with B: the entire premise of religion (and I mean all major religions, except Buddhism) is that God cares about nothing except flattery and obedience to some arbitrary set of strictures. If leading a good life and having consideration for your neighbours counted for anything, there wouldn't be a need for God or prayer. Praise God and all else is forgiven.Rahul Siddharthanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04809667965184094636noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070362.post-48180586956458048712010-07-05T07:16:14.145+05:302010-07-05T07:16:14.145+05:30If the devotees are so self-centered, their gods s...If the devotees are so self-centered, their gods should then be supremely self-centered. All the god cares about is his/her gf Pooja, damn those neighbors and the fire department.Bnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070362.post-21399003146063726802010-07-04T21:18:34.055+05:302010-07-04T21:18:34.055+05:30And what about the bell that tolls and mike that b...And what about the bell that tolls and mike that blares....?<br /><br />A story interestingly told, my dear.<br /><br />Thanks<br /><br />Nanda<br />http://ramblingnanda.blogspot.comThe Unadornedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18010721483561440174noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8070362.post-27620940804912612892010-07-04T17:29:23.370+05:302010-07-04T17:29:23.370+05:30Oh Dilip,
This is going to bring out the trolls i...Oh Dilip,<br /><br />This is going to bring out the trolls in force.<br /><br />- Puppy ManoharAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com